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Monday, December 6th, 2004
1:15 pm

Hiya...first time poster here. ^_^ I'm Jess, I'm 24 years old, and I'm a high school RE teacher. I guess you'd call me bisexual, but I definitely prefer girls. :)

About a year ago, I started dating a woman I work with. She's called Vicki, and she teaches English. We'd been friends for ages before that. The thing is...I've never really been in a proper, long-term or serious relationship with anyone, and with Vicki, right from the beginning, it was purely physical. After a while she told me that she was falling in love with me, and I freaked out, because I assumed we were just together for the sex. I explained this to her, and...well, things carried on as normal. We were kissing in the storeroom after school one day, and another teacher who works at the school walked in. She's called Sarah and she teaches Science. Vicki knew her and I didn't. Vicki asked her out for a drink with us. Anyway, one thing led to another, and the three of us ended up having sex that week. I didn't particularly mind this whole threesome-thing, but then...we kept getting 'found out', in different ways, and now there are six of us. There's another Sarah, who teaches History, and Sinéad, who also teaches History, and Rachael, who teaches Maths. The six of us have sex regularly, and it's amazing.

But there are two problems.

The first problem is...I'm worried that this thing we have going on is preventing me from settling down with someone. Vicki was actually asked out by a guy she really likes, recently, and she turned him down for us. Even though this isn't a real relationship, it's purely physical. I'm not really looking for a serious relationship with anyone right now, but I'm afraid that what we're doing here will stop me getting one when the time comes. But at the same time, I don't ever want to leave my girls, because we're so comfortable with eachother, and the pleasure it brings is amazing.

The second problem is that Sarah W (the History one!) has been married since May this year. When we first started having sex with her, she was engaged. She's married to this guy called David, who teaches Maths at the school we work at. She hardly ever, ever talks about him to us. We've tried loads of times to talk seriously about it, but she just refuses or changes the subject or says she's got it all under control. But...I don't know. She loves him a lot, and they still have sex and stuff, but then...sometimes she'll complain to us about it. The most information we ever got out of her was one night when we all got really drunk, and she told us that she believed that there are hundreds of people for each person in the world. She said that she didn't believe that David was her soulmate or anything, and that even though she was married to him, she still wanted to go out and experience every different relationship she could. And I think that's why she's with us. It's not that she doesn't see anything wrong with it - it tears her up inside. But she won't leave him, or even just go back to being his girlfriend. She's been with him for six years.

It would be great if you could help. :)

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Monday, September 6th, 2004
1:34 pm - Boredom Strikes for Ms. Advice

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Sunday, July 18th, 2004
12:56 am - God, I am pathetic.

Input sorely needed, even if it's just to tell me what an idiot I am. I don't think I've heard that enough today.

Here's one you've heard before.Collapse )

And hey, because this is "my anonymous journal" that I'm writing with, I may just be an uber-loser and cross-post this thing!

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Wednesday, May 14th, 2003
11:03 am - crossposted sorry

So I need advice (obviously)
Ok, me and my mother keep fighting about the most random shit. She fusses at me for everything and I literally don't do anything wrong. People who know me can verify that I never deserve being yelled at. So, she let me stay with my BF for a few weeks or so. Now that I have...I realize that his family treats me better than my own. his mom said she might let me move in. ill be 18 in 7 months...but i cant take her for that long. what should i do...talk to her about it? or just try to go get emancipated?
help.... :-(

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Tuesday, May 13th, 2003
6:10 pm

Ok, well here is my problem (pleaes help!)
ok, i am a bisexual and I dont currently have a GF...but my EX keeps pushing herself on me and it's very annoying. I feel that I may have possibly led her around, but I dont think i have. I've tried to tell her that "we" just cant be. shes not my type and i tried to explain it nicely...but she cant get it through her head. how can i get her to leave me alone in "that way" without hurting her too bad?

current mood: awake

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Monday, May 12th, 2003
4:39 pm - again sorry for Xposting

I just wanted to let everyone know that my BF and I discussed the problem and the poem was about me BUT the part about "tired of you" was refering to his parents in a seperate poem (and since the poem on the previous page was to the end of the page...they seemed to be the same one)

but thanks for the help.

I'm glad I have a good relationship (no matter what people think...considering I'm sure NONE of you know me personally)

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11:04 am - sorry for Xposting-

So, I have a problem.
My BF keeps this book thing and I have been reading it (he knows). Well, he used to write good things about me then not so good things. now it is to the point that he writes things like "im tired of you"
that was in a poem directed towards *yours truly*
so now i dont know what to do. i love him and i BELIEVE he loves me...hes just tired of some of the things i do.
do you think that the thing should have upset me since he was just "venting"
or was i right to get pissed.


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Sunday, March 24th, 2002
3:27 pm

There is so much conflicting information out about money management and financing that it is really hard to get through. I am looking for someone who could give me some direction in this area.

General information:

I have student loans and a small amount of personal debt.
I am employed full-time.
I have no partner and no kids.
I am still struggling to pay the bills and have some left over for fun and savings.

Help, please!

current mood: worried

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